Sixoxe nabantu abasha asebeshadile sezwa izinto eziyizinguquko ezenzakalayo empilweni yasemshadweni saphinda sezwa imiyalezo abayinika laba abasezinhlelweni zokuganwa nokuma ukugana. Kanjalo saxoxa noMfundisi ubaba S.J Mhlongo naye ongomunye wabantu abaganwa besebancane.
Ihambe kanje ingxoxo yethu nabashadile abehlukene
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| uMnu Mphathelwa Nxumalo no maZulu. Baneminyaka emine besemshadweni |
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| uMnu Lindelihle Zikalala nomaNgwenya Sebeneminyaka emihlanu emshadweni |
So kuthayisela lokho kuzethemba ngokuthi uzibona ungomunye wabantu aba responsible nabanangayesabi inselelo.
Kanti iphinde ithayisele ukuhlonipheka. Lolu shintsho - sigaba luba ngolunakeka kakhulu. Angeze isibonelo; ngisho sekudliwa inyama, wena osukuleli zinga - uyashintshwa kuthiwe awusayidli nezinsizwa kodwa sewudla nezimpevu okudala kwasa zibona impilo.
Okwesithathu; Kukukhulisa kakhulu emqondweni. Ngokuthi umasewuthole ithuba lokujwayela ukuhlala nabantu obahloniphayo futhi abanye babo owawubukela kubo usakhula; lokho kukunika ithuba lokuthi uncele, uze utshikizise umsila, ukhihlize namagwebu ungaphazanyiswa muntu kulowo mbele.
Okwesine, kube ngukukhula ekukwazini cabangela Nabanye Abantu. Njengoba usuke usunomndeni kusuke sekusho ukuthi ekuthatheni kwakho izinwumo, sekufanele ungabuki nje okuhambisana nawe kodwa ube njengomphathi weqembu ocabangela nabadlali, nabaqeqeshi ngokunjalo nabalandeli. Lokhu ngikusho ngoba kungenye yezinto eziyaye zibaluleke kakhulu ngangokuthi ikusasa nanokuthuthuka komndeni wakho, kuyaye kulale ekutheni ube muhle kanjani ekuthatheleni nabanye izinqumo.
Okwesihlanu, Ukubuka impilo ngobuHulumeni. Iyangijabulisa lena kodwa futhi iyaye ibashaye abaningi. Uma sewukulesi sigaba akube kusadinga ukuthi uma ucabanga okuthile ubheke uhlangothi okanye impilo nxanye kodwa kukudinga ukuthi ube ngokwazi ukubuka usabalale. Angenze isibonelo, kunezinqumo oyaye uzithathe ubuke ngakwezezimali, ngakwezemfundo, ngakwezempilo, ngakwezenkolo, nokunye nokunye. Yingakho ngisebenzisa igama lobuHulumeni yingoba nokucabanga, nokuhlela kwakho kuba kanjalo"
Sithi, "Bangesabi UkuLindelihle ILanga".
Miningi imishado ephelile ngenxa yokwesaba ukulinda. Ngesikhathi ukhula, ingcindezi yokuthi sekufanele uthathe ifakwa ngabaningi, abangani, abomndeni, abazali, ngisho nomphakathi.
Lokhu kutatazeliswa ingcindezi kwababona seliyozilahla kunina kwenza obephume eyotheza izinkuni bese evele ewola nanoma yimaphi amacaba bese kuphazamiseka ubuhle bomyaba nokugcina umlilo sewungavuthi kodwa ulanguke.
Kanti uma ungesabi ukuLinda kukwenza ukuthi ungagcini nje ngokuthola umuntu wesifazane kodwa uthole umuntu wesifazane onobufazi.
Angenze isibonelo, imizi eminingi ebisakhiwa iphelile ingaphelanga ngenxa yokujaha umlilo bese iwola amacaba.
Bengingathi kwabasha namusha, kwesinye isikhathi uma uphuma uya edolobheni - omunye uyashesha ukuthola itekisi kanti omunye kumdinga alinde. Kodwa uma ujahile kugcina sekwenza nanokuthi ugibele nanoma yini oyibona inamasondo. Ngalokho ngithi umshado uyisibusiso esivela kuNkulunkulu ngalokho ngithi abazigcine behamba emzileni ofanele ukuze uma isikhathi sabo sifika sibafice endaweni elungile."
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| uNkosikazi Sebenzile Ntoana umaLanga Baneminyaka emihlanu bendawonye |
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| uMfu Sabelo Shongwe nomaMvubu Baneminyaka emihlanu emshadweni To get married brings about being responsible and accountability. Uyaqoqeka futhy nemphumelelo eqhamile emphilweni nokuhlonopheka ukwazu ukuthy usuphilela ukuvikela umndeni wakho and u become focus and thinking positive n all. To de young stars willing to gt married. Its a gud nice journey to take and uqhale kahle imphilo. |
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| uMnu Melusi Malinga no maSibiya Baneminyaka emine besemshadweni |
Umuntu ozimisele ukuganwa noma ukugana, kwamele angaxhamazeli uma ethatha leso sinqumo ngoba uma uke wathi "I do" futhi wathi "Size sahlukaniswe ukufa" komele lokho ukwenze. Umzimba wakho nowomuntu oshade naye kusuke sekungumzimba owodwa ngokusho kweBible lenkolo yobuKrestu. Ungangeni emshadweni ngezizathu okungezona ezinhle. Njengokuthi "ngimshada ngoba sekumele ngishade noma ingoba uyena engithandana naye manje noma ingoba muhle". Umuntu akangabukeli kontanga yakhe asebeshadile kodwa akusuke kuye ngaphakathi ngoba kunezinselelo laphaya. Kumele ube ready enqondweni, kwezezimali, ukwazi ukuxhumana noPartner wakho noma ngani. Bese ke elokugcina. Nikhule ngakho konke okuthinta impilo noma ngabe kunzima kangakanani bese nikhulisana nasempilweni"
"Kodwa ke ukuganwa noma ukushada kuyisibosiso esivela kunkulunkulu.kanti ngokwe mpilo umuntu kumenza ayazi indawo yakhe nanokuthi ayibuke ngenye indlela impilo.ngoba uma ushada usuke usuzifunile wazithola ukuthi ufunani empilweni okukhulu umuntu usuke efuna ukwakha umndeni umndeni awukwazike ukuwakha singekho isisekelo ofuna ukuwakhela phezu kwaso. Ngamafuphi uhleleka kancono uma usuganiwe ngoba umqondo wakho usuke ungasasebenzi wodwa usuke usunomuntu obonisana naye nivele ninephupho elilodwa.uzongifakazela ukuthi umuntu oshade naye izinto nizibona ngeso elilodwa noma ngabe niqala ngokuphikisana kodwa ekugcineni niyasenza isivumelwano angeke nifane nabantu abalinde ibhasi or taxi beya edolobheni bangama ndawonye ngoba igibelelwa lapho ibhasi kodwa edolobheni nomunye oya kulokhu abekuphumele ekhaya".
ukuba semshadwen into emnand wonke umuntu ophilayo ayufisayo, so ukuba semshadwen noma ukusuka ekuben single kuza nezinto ezinhle njengokuth u hv a partner enisizana naye to take dicision abt things going forward.
Ngingath nje abangajah ukungena emshadwen ngoba bebona abanye abantu bt they must take their time".
Umfundisi SJ Mhlongo uqhube wathi
"Eqinisweni engilaziyo nje umshado unezinto zawo noma ngabe abantu abangena kuwo bangakanani. Into elekelelayo emshadweni izimfundiso abantu abazitholile bengakangeni kulesi sibaya.Okunye okudala inkinga lana kuba ukung na emshadweni ngezinhloso ezithile komunye nomunye khona ebuncaneni(ukuqeda inkanuko). Okuhle ke ebuncaneni ukuthi baqala kahle izinto bendawonye ngoba bangena emshadweni with common understanding yobunye. Kanti abadala abanqeni ukungena emshadweni bashade umshado owehlukanisa amafa ngenxa ke yezigigaba ezithile asebezibonile empilweni.Umanka lana ogcina umshado umuhle inhlonipho komunye nomunye ebuncaneni babo. Okunye okuhle yonke i asset abanayo bayayibonisana ngaphambi kokuyenza ibe yingxenye yempilo yabo. Engikulibalayo abantu abangena emshadweni bebancane abahlali beqhathanisana ngenxa yama ex abo ukuthi u ex wayenjena manje ngashada nalona unjena kodwa bazi lokhu kudla okuphambi kwabo okunongwe ngothando olunokuxolelana emaphutheni, Ngokweqiniso life is incomplete and disorganised uma umuntu engashadile ngoba akekho umuntu onamehlo esiphundu but Each person need someone to look after him/her worse uma kuziwa kuma asset. Ake ngisho kanje uma umuntu esebenza imali yakhe ingu 100% if lowo muntu edlula emhlabeni imali iyahlukaniswa u 50% owe spouse then enye eyama dependant then ke uma ungashadile lo 50% we spouse udliwa istate then ke the rest iye kwi family yakho. Ekugcineni ukushadana ebuncaneni kuyasiza kakhulu yonke into yakho iyahleleka. Ngingezwakali kabi kwabangashadile nakulaba abanquma ukuhlalela iNkosi elithi izwi kukhona abathenwa yiNkosi kanti abanye bazithene bona".
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| uMnu Mandlendoda Ndwandwe nokaMadlala Bashade ngo ngozibandlela ngonyaka ofile |
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| uMnu Syabonga Mafambane nomaxulu Bashade ngonhlolanja kulonyaka |
Ngingath nje abangajah ukungena emshadwen ngoba bebona abanye abantu bt they must take their time".
Umfundisi SJ Mhlongo uqhube wathi
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| uMfundisi SJ Mhlongo enomaMkhaliphi Baneminyaka ewu 11 besemshadweni |
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